another year older

Dot knows enough to make a big deal of her birthday. Jamie didn't, earlier this year, and was somewhat surprised about all the fuss being made by Dot. He still doesn't understand why he doesn't get birthday presents now, and why he doesn't get a party (which Dot isn't getting either, at least in the traditional sense). Oh well, he also has trouble with the whole idea of aging anyway. When talking about birthdays in the car, he found that he would be turning 5 on his next birthday. His response? "Oh, no! Not again!"







For Dot, we ate a summer meal of hamburgers and peel and eat shrimp, along with corn on the cob. Marble cake for dessert - which Jamie so eagerly helped to decorate. Later we will be going to Chuck-E-Cheese's, not for pizza - to play lots of games with a friend or two.
Presents included a previously loved American Girls doll (Samantha), some books, a very highly desired (and also previoulsy loved) study Bible, a few craft sets, and a dinosaur hat.

Fair sewing

My sewing entries for the fair are completed! Dot, on the other hand, has quite a bit left to do on her items. I'll post photos of them when she has them done. Here are mine:
a child's day dress











a child's two piece outfit











and shorts for the boy who wanted the striped pants (which he can't have because they are *girls* pants!).











These won't be entered in the fair, because I didn't get them registered. I didn't know I would be making them!
Also made, but unpictured, a pair of women's trousers.
I've never worked so hard on my sewing before. I finished every seam, and reinforced quite a few as well. This makes things look nicer - and keeps edges from fraying. In ready-to-wear, you have seams that are serged. I do not have a serger (they are still too pricey for me), so I have to go to a lot of extra effort to finish my seams. So much extra effort that I don't usually do it! Call me lazy, I don't mind.

Sick of summer... clothes?

Are you tired of wearing shorts and t-shirts? Are you ready for courduroy and wool? Perhaps the weather is not obliging - our temps are in the 90's for the rest of the week - but the fashion industry is touting it's fall lines, and the stores have back-to-school clothing on display. (They also have *halloween* candy out, but that's another rant entirely.) What is in store for the chic and trendy this fall? What was presented as "ready-to wear"? Apparently more of the figure destroying that has been out there recently. Yes, the "guaranteed to make you look pregnant" tops and dresses continue for this next season, but we also get this: the cropped menswear trouser.














Yes, even the super skinny models look hippy in these trousers. What hope is there for the rest of womankind?
Okay, so let's change things around, and put the volume on top: puffed sleeves.














These would make Anne of Green Gables jealous. Alrighty then, how about volume all around? And in a color most people run from:














So, jeans and a long sleeve t-shirt might just stay a staple in most people's closets. That's not to say that the designers made each collection a complete flop - there are some wearable items out there. And there's color! For more fashion shows, check out Style.com. The couture lines may make you laugh out loud!

Recycled tires

Did you play on old tires as a child? Our school playground had a circle of old tires planted in the ground, and we played there happily each recess. Someone decided that tires were breeding grounds for mosquitoes, though, and out went all the old tire playgrounds...










Happily there is a large tire playground at one of our state parks, and it is nearby! We went there Saturday morning, and spent over an hour playing. The kids love the tire swings and zipline more than anything else there, but they did climb and balance as well. They are excited to know that we will be using this park as part of homeschool - yes, playtime can be gym class, as long as they are getting good exercise.










Another great thing about this park - it is part of a larger chain of parks that follow the Patapsco river. Together they offer history, hiking, playgrounds, and camping. We have taken hikes at a few of the other parks, and did so at this one as well. The trail winds down the hill and follows a creek, where we hopped from rock to rock and watched a crawdad swim to safety under a rock. We watched a millipede cross the path, smoothly climbing over roots and stones. We walked away from the noise and busyness of the city, smiled at other hikers, and enjoyed a bit of nature together as a family. It's nice to escape every so often.

Lurking

I try not to spend too much time online - usually that is when the kids start to get into trouble. I suppose they aren't ready to be left alone... Because of this, I don't do a lot of surfing, finding new sites to explore. I stick to my regular few, and check my email. Every so often I will update this blog and head over to Facebook to check how things are going there.
However there is one site that I have found to be somewhat addictive. Craigslist has me wasting more time than any other site online. The "free" stuff gets me - it's amazing what people will give away! I've never gotten anything from the free listings, but I lurk there regularly.
What do you have in your house that is worth posting for "free"?

Am I really that old?

So, I turned thirty earlier this summer, and I didn't think much of it. It wasn't as traumatic as it seems in the media... until I received this in the mail. Apparently 30 is the new 55.

Why did the chicken cross the road?

Why, mom? Why? Why? Why?
Yup, we've entered the preschool stage of questioning everything. I understand he is simply desires more information, but his questions quickly get too detailed or ambiguous. Why did the chicken want to go to the other side of the road?










In our house the chicken poses far more outrageous questions:
Why is the chicken wearing bow tie?
Why is the egg clear? or, Where is the shell?, or Why is the egg squishy?
Why is the chicken plucked?
Is the chicken angry?
Why is the boy chicken laying an egg? (Okay, so it could be a girl, but somehow they decided it was a boy. I think it is because of the afore-mentioned bow tie.)
Which came first, the chicken or the egg? (Ours came together, from the dollar store!)

And, from the parents who have to live with the kids who play with the chicken, Why does the chicken have to squawk so much???

What to see on vacation

Okay, so it's not a normal tourist spot, but I think that it is an enjoyable place to visit. The Greenlawn Cemetary was quiet when we drove in earlier this week. Filled with many lovely historical memorials, this well kept grounds felt peaceful and interesting. I like to wander through graveyards - who were theese people? Some family plots had many small graves - sons and daughters who did not live through childhood, something that seems incomprehensible in this day and age. Some had large, intricately carved monuments, or even mausoleums, possibly with stained glass windows (Tiffany!). Some were veterans, named and unnamed.
Why do people spend so much money on the gravesite of their departed relatives? Will we remember them better with a larger headstone - or even mausoleum? Do we think of them more highly with an intricate memorial? Or are we just supposed to enjoy the beauty of the stone and reflect on life?
Mom told of the relative who claimed he wanted to be frozen and pounded into the ground - no fuss over him when he was gone. Gone are the days of simple burials. Why do we need satin-lined caskets? Will a plain pine box not do the job? Perhaps we put up such a show as a way of making our last impression, or even a lasting impression. But shouldn't our life be more impressive than our grave?
Aah, things got more in depth than I meant for today... back to the beauty of the graveyard. Old cemeteries are interesting places to visit, to reflect on life and the beauty to be found in it, to think of mortality and the chance to live forever. Even stone memorials don't last.

Weekend visitors

This past weekend was busy, as we had a family with 10 children visiting our home. They came down after spending the week attending the GARBC conference in Lancaster, PA., with the intent of seeing Washington, DC while they had the chance. (I don't think they travel like this too often, but, how may families - with only one or two children even - travel that much?) We fixed up lots of extra beds throughout the house, and moved our kids into our bedroom. We all fit, fairly comfortably, and had a great time with them.







I think that our kids enjoyed every minute they were here. They had so many friends! Just about every toy in the house got played with. Books were talked about and exchanged. Imagination abounded! It's too bad we live so far apart - I know the kids will miss having so many friends. (I'll miss having someone entertaining them!) Life was extremely fun and joy-filled.







I have been asked many times if I am crazy for allowing that many people come stay in our house... perhaps I am , but it's a happy crazy.

Fighting a losing battle

This week I am spending a good amount of time cleaning - on Friday evening we will be welcoming some friends for the weekend. Are you ready for this? It's a family with nine children... yeah, anywhere we can put a bed or sleeping bag will be filled. So, we've cleaned the bedrooms, aired linens, and made a long shopping list. But... having sleeping bags and air mattresses out has become too strong of a temptation to the kids. Yeah, the living room looks like a campsite, and not a clean one at that. Oh, yeah, to top it all off? Jim is on a business trip until Sunday afternoon.

In other news, Dot is finally done with math for this year! Also, the garden is producing sugar snap peas, green beans, lettuce, and yellow squash. Tomatoes are ripening, but it will be another week or two before they are ready. Cucumbers will be ready about that time, too.
Check out some of our flowers - they are beautiful, too.

happy birthday/father's day

Sunday was, as we all know, Father's day. It was also Jamie's birthday. He has successfully turned four, although he still wants to be three - because he wants to be a baby. Apparently, being a "big boy" is too much work.
We didn't have a party for him, not a real one. We didn't have time! He got lots of little parties with family and friends, and he got presents.










He enjoyed a cake, cookies, brownies, and pie. Isn't that enough? If it isn't, he now has lots of money to spend (but it will probably end up in his bank account).
BTW, he got new glasses - what do you think? He picked them out by himself.

Cultural date night

Last week was so busy that we looked forward to a chance to catch our breath on Saturday. Other than our normal household tasks, there was nothing planned! That changed on Thursday, whenI opened the newspaper. There, in the middle of the Today section, was a large photo of Peter Schickele. P.D.Q. Bach was coming to Baltimore for a live recording! What's more, the tickets were only $11 a piece... how could we NOT go? Thankfully we have a good babysitter, one who is willing to stay up late! The kids looked forward to an evening with Miss Hannah, and we looked forward to an evening out alone.

The concert was so much fun! Peter Schickele is fun to listen to on the radio or on a cd, but it doesn't compare to being there in person! There is a lot of visual comedy that is missed on a recording. The string quartet was especially good at this - you won't pick up on a lot of it on the cd.

BTW, in the first half we saw a Mom moment - the string quartet was "playing so high that the human ear could not hear" - yup, high above the strings! In the second half we saw Dad's instrument being used - the melodica. I never thought I would see one used in a "formal" setting. It just added to the fun!

If you buy the cd when it comes out later this year, you'll hear us laughing and clapping along with the audience. We are now a part of history!

back door visit

This morning I went out to water the garden, and found it to be a beautiful day. It's a perfect summer morning! It makes me wish that I did not have a mountain of laundry to do, and a house to clean. I would love to spend the day outside...
Well, life does require work, so back in the house I went. I found a little visitor on the back door screen...










We have seen a praying mantis on our back wall before, but it has always been full-grown. I have seen a baby one in our flower garden a couple of times this year, but never so out in the open. I'm glad we have them in our yard!

Vacation, take two

The next day trip we took was down to Mohican State Park and Malabar Farm State Park. While Jim grew up going to Mohican, I don't remember ever having been there. We drove down to the covered bridge area, where we ate our picnic lunch.










The kids enjoyed the stream (creek? river?) and swingsets, but didn't like the bugs. The path to the dam looked a bit muddy, and the noise of construction made us give up on that hike.










We did drive to the dam, and we spent a little time there before the heat made us give up and move along. After all, a giant dam is not much fun to two kids... unless you let them roll all the way down, and then they would complain about the walk back up.
Next stop, Malabar Farm, just a few miles away. The visitor's center was welcoming - and Air Conditioned! Jamie and Dot didn't want to leave all the colorful displays, but we got them excited about seeing the farm animals. The farm was mostly deserted - it was a very hot day, over 90 degrees and sunny, and schools weren't out for the summer yet. We had the barn all to ourselves, and the kids loved it. Jamie wasn't afraid of the large work horses - he went right up and fed them.








Dot loved the rabbit running free through the barn - and would love to have been able to take advantage of the sign on his cage, "rabbits for sale, $4." Outside, the kids pulled weeds to feed the cow and goats - if only that worked in our garden... but we don't have a cow.







The chickens ran right out of the henhouse when we walked by. We watched them peck around in the dirt until I dug around in my purse to find two quarters - the chicken feed was in a gumball machine, and the chickens expected to be fed!







Even though we were near to the farmhouse, we did not go in for a tour. While Jim and I would have enjoyed it by ourselves, we could easily imagine the kids breaking stuff. Instead, we headed off for a hike through the woods across the road.







The trail through the forest was beautiful, quiet and shady. We tried to keep the kids from talking too much - and they did fine, especially when they saw the deer ahead of us. We listened to a woodpecker drilling a tree, and heard other birds enjoying the early summer day. Of course, Jamie got too tired, and had to be carried, but by the end we had him on the look out for the blue trail markers on the trees. We wearily headed back to the visitors center, where we indulged in ice cream and cold pop.







They also had fresh, free-range chicken eggs for sale, and we picked up a couple dozen, along with some blue popcorn to try later. Jim picked up a book (what else?), From My Experience, by Louis Bromfield, based on what he learned through Malabar farm. It goes on the shelf, a part of Jim's dream of a small family farm...

You always come home with more....

For the most part, we do pretty well packing up after vacation. Not too many items get left behind, and usually it's the kids who do the forgetting. This trip we expected to come home with more "stuff" due to birthdays and souveneirs, but somehow we ended up with a bag of candes, and we don't know who they belong to! (I suppose that should be, "to whom they belong." but I think that sounds stuffy these days.)
Can you enlighten us? (Ooh, sorry, bad pun!) Do they belong to you?

Vacation, take one

I promised, and now I can follow through, at least part of the way. For more, head over to my Picasa album. I'll be uploaded photos as I get to them.
Our first stop was with Grandpa. His room is very nice, as is the rest of the retirement center, which we toured before lunch. We were early for lunch, and the kids entertained some of the other residents while we waited. Lunch was liver and onions! (The staff was kind enough to let Jim and the kids have leftover lasagna instead!) After lunch we spent some more time talking with Grandpa, and learned more about his childhood. Did you know he lived on a large family farm - without any indoor plumbing? Because of the farm, they did not suffer during the depression. Did you know he used a boat to get to school? Did you know he met Grandma at a wedding where they were the attendants?
Here is Jamie, sharing an old train magazine with Grandpa:







Our next stop was in Painesville, to stay overnight with Andy and Sharon. The kids were overjoyed to be able to run and play with their cousins! We enjoyed a Sunday morning church service at their church, and then a nice lunch - and we all fit around the table!







On to Norwalk, our "base camp" for the rest of the week. From there we headed off to Kelley's Island for a day trip. It was beautiful there, making me wish for the island life - until I remembered that the summer tourist season hadn't really started up yet, and we had come to a relatively deserted island. We had our picnic lunch in town, and then started the 1 1/2 - 2 mile walk up to the state park. The kids got too tired, so we stopped along the way to let them rest:







Yeah, running and hopping on rocks is my idea of a good rest, too. :-) We eventually made it up to the park, and walked around the glacial grooves. They are very intersting to look at, to imagine the power of ice!







We then walked to the beach, where we warned the kids that we had no changes of clothing, no swimsuits, and no towels, so we would only be wading... That worked well as long as we were watching them like hawks. Someone decided to sit down in the surf:










Thankfully, the campground/playground part of the park is nearby, and we were able to relax (and dry off!). With a promise of ice cream running through their minds the kids were able to make the hike back to town relatively quickly (it didn't hurt that Jim carried Jamie for a good part of it!). We found some new favorite ice cream flavors - Toft's "Buckeye Bites" and "Coconut Cream Pie".

back from the abyss

For the last ten days we have been on vacation, and for a good portion of that time we haven't been able to access our email or the internet. Can you imagine? It will take us awhile to catch up, but look for vacation photos soon!

Unusual Jewelry

Here's another source for an out-of-the-ordinary ring. They are marketed as eco-friendly wedding rings, but I like the idea of having one just because they are beautiful! Unfortunately, I don't have the money for one, and it would be ruined quickly as I wash my hands *frequently* throughout the day (and I would forget to take the ring off!). Oh, but they are lovely!

Cheddar, Swiss, Gouda... "George and the Dragon"

Last night we had a responsibility-free night (no dishes, no school work, no chores). To celebrate, the kids and I went out to Redbox for a few dvd's. Okay, so "Night at the Museum" is, eh, okay, funny enough. Adam Sandler is not going to challenge your thinking. He's also not going to teach you anything new in the history department, despite the fact that the movie is based in the Museum of Natural History. It's predictable, with enough laughs to say it was worth the $1.05 it cost.
However, "George and the Dragon" was not worth the $1.05. It is, as the title of this post alludes to, cheesy. Very cheesy. I suppose they think that American "tweens" are not very intelligent, as they are the target of this movie. The fighting is overly choreographed, the dragon animation really sticks out, and the acting is, eh, cheesy. Apparently girls are stronger and more intelligent than guys, and they can stay clean and extremely well-groomed during a fight in an old castle that catches on fire. Yeah, I guess I will never be a princess if that is one of the requirements.

Redheads

We went to the farm today to buy our vegetable plants. This farm has an added benefit - animals. They have hundreds of goats, a few chickens (although they were hiding today), a rabbit, and this odd, hairy cow. Anyway, it seems to have something in common with Dot.

More sadness

Last week my sewing machine quit working on me. It had been running a bit rough lately, and the "new" machine we had found at a garage sale didn't quite work, either. So, we hauled them both over to the sewing machine repair shop/store to get estimates on their repair bills. Last night we got word of their conditions.
The "new" machine has a broken head gear, and can be fixed for a little over $100. Still cheaper than a new machine. It's not a nice of a machine as the other one, though.
My faithful old machine (from the 60's?), given to me by Desina Rogers before we got married, also had a broken head gear, and cannot be fixed. They do not make that specific head gear any more!
That machine has really done it's job over the years. It has turned out countless pieces of clothing, many quilts, and has patched our clothes. I thought that with periodic maintanance I would be able to use that machine for years to come. It was built to last, and would have if they still made the head gear.
Do you think it strange that I am attatched to my sewing machine? It has brought me many hours of joy over the years as I pursued my hobby of sewing. It has covered and clothed my family and friends. It has faithfully done it's job without many complaints. What do you have that has done that for you?

more art

Dot wanted everyone to see her latest art class creation. I don't know what they were teaching through this project, but she seemed to enjoy making it.
Jamie has also been doing more art, and this is his latest "masterpiece."

family ties

Last night Dot brought our wedding album out to the living room, to show some of the photos to Jamie. He wasn't really interested, but we did look through the pictures, pointing out some of hte people he would know. When confronted with the picture of the groomsmen, he picked out Uncle Michael right away. He then went on to name Andy as "Uncle Michael's brother". (Sorry Doug and Jeff, but he drew a blank at your names. He couldn't name Linda or Katrina, either.) Jamie then said, "Uncle Michael my brother!"

new toys

Springtime brings us outdoors, and the lawn becomes littered with all sorts of toys. Then the garage sales start, and more toys become part of the whole mess. At least they aren't watching tv...

Here are our favorites so far:


The arrowcopter, which we found at the homeschool fair. This simple toy sort of replicates the helicoper seeds that spin down from the trees, with the exception that you must first launch it like an arrow, by way of a rubber band and short wood dowel.










DominoRally, which is alot of work for such a short - but fun - result. The kids like to set this up and watch it go off. Thankfully Dot can do it by herself!









Perfection is just the game for Jamie. He loves puzzles and he loves to have things "blow up," so he plays this over and over again.
And, of course, Wiffle Ball, which we've posted about before. I'm sure we'll be playing more of that this summer. Anything that makes the kids like baseball is a good toy for Jim.
This is one of the best parts of having kids - we get to be kids again, too. What is your favorite game?

A great sorrow across the land

Last week I discovered terrible news... Walmart is removing their fabric departments! Our local store had only one wall of fabric left, and all of it was on clearance. I, of course, bought many, many yards of fabric due to the low price. Like 40 yards. I was happy to find such a bargain, but saddened to know that resource was going to be gone forever when the fabric sold out.